Every day, we get to experience stressful moments that can either break us or make us stronger. Stress is everywhere at home with the household, the kids, etc; at work with our projects; in our daily encounters with clients; in our families where there are very often ups and downs, quarrels and reconciliations; etc. We are faced to so many stressful factors, it can happen that one may be feeling overwhelmed and stressed.
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You are the only one who knows what you really want. It starts from within. Where do you see yourself in a few years time? How do you picture your future? What type of things would you like to see in your life? What aspects of your life would you like to improve? What aspects of your multidimensional life would you like to improve? This is part of your personal development.
Are you living as a married couple or just living together before tying the knots? Whichever it is, ‘love relationships’ also form part of your personal development.
Why carry unnecessary weight this year ?
We do not realize it but every day of our life we carry a lot of weight. As we live a multidimensional life, this weight can come from many arenas of our life, namely, our professional life, personal life, financial life, familial life, interaction with others, journey to lose or put on physical weight. Whatever it is, the moment you interact with certain people, you can attract more unnecessary weight in your life.
Are you about to quit?
Hold on a second and let’s think about it:
You see quitting is not necessarily a bad thing; in fact, it is sometimes the most courageous and difficult thing to do in order to succeed. But it all depends on why you’re quitting.
Your personal development plan MUST include physical health!
Unlike what most people think, personal development is not just about becoming rich and spiritual health. It is also about physical health. Exercising is not just about losing weight. Exercising every week can change your life for the best.
Have a system that works for you:
We all run our lives by following a system, whether we are consciously aware of it or not. However, some systems are dysfunctional and therefore produce lousy results, whereas others are functional and produce good or great results. The key is to adopt one system that works for you, for each one of your life goals.
4 ways to avoid wishful thinking and make your dream a reality
ONE: Whatever the circumstances, do not hold onto the negatives in your life. Hold onto the positive aspects of your life. Dwell on them and feel grateful about what you have. That in turn, will make you happy about your present circumstances despite whatever you are going through.
A lot of people nowadays rely on external circumstances to be or feel happy. How often do you hear people around you say ‘I am not happy with this’, ‘I am depressed because of that’, ‘he/she doesn’t make me happy’ etc.? Yet they go on and do nothing to change whatever makes them feel that way.
I have been influenced by many inspirational speakers and authors such as Zig Ziglar, Chris Gardner, and Jack Canfield.
I have also been influenced by Rhonda Byrne, I read many of her books such as the Secret, Magic & the Power.
The turning point in my life was when I attended the National achievers congress 2014 and heard and was in the presence of so many inspirational speakers: Paul Naidoo, Robin Banks, J T Foxx, Tom Hopkins, Les Brown, etc.
Something changed in me and I decided to look deeper into myself. That’s when my husband and I decided to enroll for Les Brown’s 3-day seminar and that was a milestone in my life. That seminar that took place in November 2014 was mind blowing and a life changing experience.
I always wanted to push myself to the limit and make things happen. I am always listening to people and procuring good advice. But I never contemplated the idea of going further than that. I always wanted to write and I started writing things and then left it unfinished.
I have now decided to act and like Roosevelt T said: